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Recently, pop star Stephen Gately died on holiday with his partner in Mallorca. The post-mortem found the cause of death was pulmonary oedema, and the coroner ruled he died of natural causes. He was 33 years of age.

If you don't know who Stephen Gately was and are still reading he was a member of Boyzone, a 1990's Irish boyband who were popular around the same time as The Spice Girls and Take That. In 1999, after hearing that someone was due to sell a story to the tabloid press about his sexuality, Gately decided to pre-empt the press and come out, albeit reluctantly. He didn't think it was anyone else's business who he chose to sleep with, and I am inclined to agree. Boyzone went their separate ways and though some members went on to have solo success, Gately mainly stayed out of the spotlight. He entered into a civil partnership with his long-term boyfriend in 2006 and kept himself to himself.

Although the news of his death at such a young age was pretty shocking, the press reaction has for the most part pretty measured. The ghoulish glee at exposing a celebrity's tawdry private life as is often the case in celebrity deaths such as those of Michael Jackson and Heath Ledger was predominantly absent from the coverage, not least because it seemed there was nothing over which to gloat.

That was, until today.

The British newspaper The Daily Mail is a dispicable rag of hate-filled half-truths at the best of times, but today they surpassed themselves. Somehow one of their journalists, one Jan Moir, has managed to take the sad death of this young man in relatively rare but not unheard-of circumstances and turn it into something sordid. If you wish to read the unexpurgated version of her strange musings and illogical conclusions, you can see the full article here. However, here are a few gems from the content of her article.

After the jump, witness someone leaping so far to conclusions, I'm extremely surprised she didn't fall down the gorge and smash her face in )

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After my experience of someone calling me a bitch on my Facebook status update a couple of weeks ago, Mr G yesterday received a tirade of abuse from someone he worked with about three years ago as a PM on self same site. This guy had tried to strike up a Facebook chat with Mr G on a couple of occasions, during which time Mr G had either been away from the computer and left FB open, had it running in a different tab and didn't realise he was being chatted at or on the one occasion he was trying to talk back to the guy was trying to upload photos at the same time and couldn't get the chat applet to work and told him as much.

Apparently this was sufficient provocation for Mr G to receive a message on Facebook last night that kept him up until 7am fretting. Apparently "refusing" to engage in a chat with someone he's not spoken to in nearly three years and only ever worked with briefly makes Mr G an "aloof, arrogant twat". Really?

Trouble is, Mr G is feeling particularly down on himself at the moment because of having to take more time off work, and also because of some of the hurtful things A said in our protracted friendship breakdown earlier this year and he's been sat up all night, upset that everyone thinks he's an cold, arrogant bully and what that means about how he really is.

I want to hunt this person down and tell him a few things about the consequences of sounding off via the internet with your ill-formed views and nastiness.

This year I've read quite a bit about how the relative anonymity of the internet giving people licence to let rip both barrels and say hurtful and even sometimes defamatory things without fear of redress. David Mitchell wrote an article in the Guardian newspaper about his own experiences and I wholeheartedly agree with everything he says.

It's left me wondering how difficult it is to do a mental check before you hit "send" as to whether you would say what you've just typed out loud and to someone's face? It only goes to show you can't be too careful.

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